Continuation of Jen’s story..

“I never want to be untrue to myself again. It’s like feeling uncomfortable in your own skin. No one has a right to make me feel that way. IT is that nightmare of feeling “not me” that motivates making myself and what I want a bigger priority. It is healthy to voice my opinion, and it should not only matter but also be respected. I’ve grown into a stronger woman because I know now I can rely on myself to make my goals a reality. I don’t need to be with someone – there are other fish in the sea! Knowing I am finally in control of my life is something I’ve worked very hard to achieve since leaving my ex. I’m proud of my accomplishments, and the men I date now find my interest and goals fascinating! There is no shame in learning from mistakes.” – Jen

“I treat everyone with respect and consideration, enjoy helping when possible, and do my best to respect my own needs. I’m soft-spoken but express feelings and desires. Holding things in creates unhealthy anger.I’m entitled to be important!”

“Don’t do nice things for bargaining chips or succumb to guilt about not doing someone’s bidding”

“And oftentimes excusing of a fault, Doth make the fault worse by the excuse” - Shakespeare

…. adapted from Nice Girls Can Finish First.